This question is not just the premise of that Mel Gibson film where the macho archetype ends up trying out hot wax strips and a bra. It’s something that goes through the minds of several men on a daily basis.
There is a scene that proves vital within this romantic comedy. Despite the character finding it impossible to live with the thoughts of all the nearby females in his head, he does find a silver lining.
During a sexual encounter the main character finds himself providing a woman with the best sex of her life. His ability to hear her thoughts helps him anticipate what she desires, how, and where. It also makes him unafraid to give her what she wants.
One of the different subjects delved in the film seems to be that women never say out loud what they want in bed. It also seems to have inspired the illustration series titled Smell of Sleep. While it’s physically impossible to read or hear your partner’s thoughts, patience can help you uncover and explore the perverse aspect inhabiting every woman. It can become a form of intuition that can be sensed in order to be experienced together.
What women want is not to hide their perversions, but to freely enjoy their sexual encounters. They dream with discovering that their fantasies can also be realities. Some of these desires are:
Cunnilingus and the Black Kiss.
Sex in places other than the usual bedroom.
Switching the role of the dominant and the submissive in the same night.
Sex implies constantly changing the role of who’s in charge and who’s at the other’s mercy. It’s the first stage of desire: tongue and sweat confused on the skin. There can be bondage, gags, and blindfolds. Even tied hands can hold on to vibrators, dildos, and lube.
The best kind of sex is the dirty one. It can be so brutal and obscene that it reaches the limits and crosses them. It’s all about finding the place that will hurt, the moment you find incredible satisfaction only to then be in agony once more. But instead of giving up, you only want to keep going. At times both parties give in to their desire while still clothed and far from reaching the bed. When both partners can dress in each other’s fantasies, they can also find a new way to reach their peak of pleasure.
These black and white drawings provide a brief glimpse into the outcomes of a sexual encounter. It poses the idea that when no one limits fantasies and turns them into reality, one can listen to the rhythm of their partner’s pulse under the skin and sweat.
Allow these sketches to inspire you in having the best sex of your life tonight.
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If you're looking for more illustrations you can check out Erotic Depictions of Sexual Fantasies We’ve All Had or An Erotic And Amorous Encounter That Will Teach You All About Sex.
Translated by María Suárez