The perfect woman does not exist. On the other hand, talented, dreamy women can be found in this world. They are complicated, and it’s that complexity that makes them independent, passionate, and goal driven.
They wait for no man to give meaning to their lives, on the contrary, men are looking for women who can share the same experiences.
It is not a matter of looks or momentary value. The power of women resides in some of the following characteristics that us, men, find irresistible.
They think for themselves
There’s nothing sexier than a woman with a strong opinion. These girls are able to back up their arguments, and are always open to debate. Their confidence is a turn on.
They don’t easily laugh at our jokes
Men are always showing off their impeccable sense of humor, irony, and sarcasm. We love to make a girl laugh for the right reasons. When talking to a girl you have to pay attention and see whether she is listening to what you’re saying. If she laughs at your most politically incorrect jokes, perhaps she is just faking it.
She knows what she wants
A driven woman is sometimes hard to find. She needs to know which are her goals and the way she wants to achieve them. Even if her plans change, she must have one. If a guy wants to get involved in a serious relationship, he is going to look for a mature, goal-oriented woman.
She enjoys some alone time
She needs to be able to enjoy her solitude and appreciate the little things. She won’t need him there at all times, and she will have no problem going out with her friends with him being out of the picture. After spending some time apart, she can share her anecdotes.
She disagrees with you
She’ll disagree on the small things and the big ones. You don’t have to have the same opinion, and that will bring balance to the relationship. It also diversifies the conversation. We all enjoy spending hours talking with someone who knows how to defend his or her point of view.
She’s not into your money
If she decides to spend time with you it is because she finds you interesting. She sees you as a potential partner in a serious relationship, someone to spend the rest of her life with.
She has a strong personality
She doesn’t like to be bossed around by you or anyone. She owns her life and won’t allow you to interfere with her choices. She is aware she is a strong, independent woman.
She is mature
She has a positive attitude when facing the challenges life throws at her. She knows what she wants and nothing will stop her.
She knows how to enjoy life
While a certain level of maturity is required, she also knows how to have fun. Not everything has to be serious, and a good time and laughter will keep the flame of love alive.
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As men, we shouldn’t be looking for an specific type of girl, and women should not adjust their personality to fit the expectations of a man. However, this is an exercise that establishes some of the things we, as men, take into consideration when starting a serious relationship.
