Vanilla sex means falling into a routine and traditional practices that ultimately end up destroying the sexual appetite of people. The term comes from a gastronomic allegory: if you step into an ice-cream shop there are at least 20 different flavors and countless eccentric combinations that will unchain a food orgasm; unfortunately, you pick the most bland, traditional, and common flavor, squandering a variety of new sensations and intense pleasures.
If you don’t want to fall under the same routine or appear like an utter novice in sex, it’s necessary to be open to new, interesting information. Knowing the following sexual terms will open up your erotic panorama so you can look for other flavors besides vanilla. Some can be described as perverse or bold, but be open to the possibilities and trying them out with your partner. Maybe you’ll discover your favorite flavor after all.
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The Singapore Kiss
It consists of contracting the pubococcygeus muscles to simulate a suction effect while the woman is on top. The name, as well as the technique, came to be thanks to a prostitute in Shanghai who was able to insert and remove the male organ with simple, vaginal suction movements. Do you want to know how to give the Singapore Kiss?
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Fisting
In the world of extreme sex, the fisting practice consists of introducing in a partial way the hand inside the anus or vagina of the partner. Although this act is popular within the BDSM community it has to be practiced with extreme precaution. Newbies are advised to wear a latex glove, remove rings, and use large amounts of water-soluble lubricant.
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Footjob
A footjob consists of sexually stimulating the other person through soft, gentle massages using only the feet. People normally see this as a fetish, but recently people have begun incorporating this in their sexual repertoire as a form of experimentation.
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Gang bang
It is an orgy where a single woman has sexual relations with an indefinite number of men. During this encounter, double or triple penetrations are a possibility. When a man has sex with several women it is called a reverse gang bang or boybang.
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Glory hole
People who go to brothels prefer to have sex anonymously since the last thing they want is to have their identity revealed, causing mayhem in their private life. To protect their identity without losing a gram of pleasure, the Glory Hole was created. It is a hole in a wall where the penis is introduced to receive oral sex or to practice vaginal or anal sex with the person on the other side.
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Sexit
Sexit is when a couple, generally two strangers, go out to a party, reunion, or meet up to have sex in a private or spontaneous place. The most important element is for the encounter to be fast and many times the couples never see each other again.
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Bangover
Is the term used to describe a sexual hungover. This happens when people are left with hip, muscle, or leg pain after an intense sexual encounter. To avoid this it is recommended that the couple increase their repertoire of sexual positions.
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Facesitting
Facesitting is another practice within the BDSM community in which one member of the couple sits on the other’s face for receiving oral stimulation in the vagina or anus. While facesitting is now becoming a common practice, its origins are related to roles of domination and submission.
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Coolidge Effect
It is said that a stable couple falls under a routine that diminished sexual pleasure. The Coolidge effect is the reactivation of desire when a new person comes into the picture. Many people say that this biological and psychological process is the main cause of infidelity.
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Sexdiet
It has been scientifically proven that during sex you burn over 200 calories. The sexdiet consists of having long and frequent sexcapades with the aim of losing weight. For it to work you have to have sex at least three times a day and the encounters must last at least 20 minutes.
