A poll carried out by the newspaper El Confidencial enumerated the phrases that turned men on the most during sex. In this dirty talk compendium, they were most keen on the words that made them forget who and where they were, and assume a new role, while some alluded to all the sensual things men can do to a woman’s body. Some may see dirty talk as a highly arousing activity while others may burst into laughter. To dominate the dirty talk technique you must distinguish sexy and stimulating language from the vulgar and boorish.
To scream, pant, whisper, and moan are not the only tools you can employ in your sexual arsenal; sexting can be a creative and interesting foreplay. This practice is not new by any means, since there has been pen and paper, naughty messages have been exchanged for centuries. Now, there are countless apps out there that facilitate this exchange, and Instagram is not only the most iconic app for the Y generation, but also a new tool for you to wield your sexual imagination.
There is no doubt about it: you have to be smart and savvy when sending lascivious messages, so here are 10 tips to bear in mind if you’re going to use Instagram in your seduction game.
1.Even if your face is covered in these photographs you are exchanging, you must always protect your identity, and you alone can decide how much to reveal and when.
2. The small details count just as much as the main protagonist, which is you, so take care of all elements that will be included in the image.
3. Make sure the messages you send are not automatically shared on other social media networks, so before you press send, check the settings of the app.
4. Be as bold as you look; however, there is no need to mention your name or any compromising information.
5. If you don’t know the person very well when you exchange sexts, you can use a pseudonym.
6. Implicit is better than explicit when it comes to sexting. Leave something to the imagination and be sure you don’t cross the line.
7. While the new function allows images to be deleted in 24 hours, thousands of people can still gain access to them for just a few seconds, so think twice before you use a platform like Instagram as a sexting tool.
8. There is no reason why you should expose yourself; you can use some erotic hashtags as a hint to the person you like.
9. Before you send a private message, make sure the receiver is not capable of making it public on Instagram or any social network. Do you trust that person?
10. There are many ways to filter and look up the information on the web even if it is private. If you have more to lose by sharing these images or sexts, then best avoid it.
Instagram has finally found a solution to the temporality issue that comes with sexting. Its new function allows users to share texts and photographs through direct messages, and it added a new interface similar to Snapchat where you can publish content that will disappear from the platform after 24 hours. The messages you send also share the same characteristic; once read, these will be deleted.
Sexting can be harmless and fun, but it can also turn nightmarish in the blink of an eye. This why we stress the responsibility you must take when sexting using social media. When you share something, always, always delete it from your phone and especially if it is stored in the cloud. If someone is pressuring you to send a sext and you don’t feel comfortable, don’t do it. Simple as that. Sexting is consensual and has to be enjoyed by both, because that is its sole purpose: mutual, erotic enjoyment.
