Have you wondered why a woman leaves her partner? Some of her reasons might have to do with the partner, some others have to do with her own inner life. The most important thing to remember is that this is her decision and you need to come to terms with it and respect it.
She is going to leave you, and there is nothing you can do about it. That certainty is killing you, and it takes away all the joy in eating, sleeping, and even smiling. Do not blame yourself. It's not you, it's she who does not want to be with you anymore. But she is not trying to hurt you, she is just a human being like you, who goes through changes, breakthroughs, ups and downs, and who has to navigate her own personal conflicts.
She loved you before and probably still does, but if she's leaving you, her reason is probably one of the following:
20. Because she misses being herself
Although she trusts you, she misses those moments when she did everything on her own. She misses grabbing lunch without having to ask what you would like to eat, and she misses spending time with the other people she loves.
19. Because she doesn't like who you have become
You have changed, as we all do, but she doesn't love the new you.
18. Because she doesn't like the person she's become
After all the things you went through together, she's changed, and not knowing who she is anymore scares her more than losing you.
17. She doesn't find you attractive anymore
It is cruel and painful to find out she doesn't find you attractive anymore, but it happens.
16. She is into someone else and she would rather leave you than cheat on you
Just like men find other women attractive and decide to cheat, women might like someone else even when in a relationship. But some people prefer to end things before cheating and possibly hurting someone else.
15. She knows you'll wait for her
She knows you will always be there for her, and she feels free to leave and come back when she's ready.
14. She is tired of being in a relationship
Sometimes people get tired of being lonely, and sometimes people feel tired of being with one person for a long time and feel empty.
13. She is tired of explaining herself
She is tired of your jealousy and your controlling ways. Tired of you knowing every detail about her, of your constant calls asking her where and with whom she is, and of your constant criticism of her.
12. She wants to have sex with someone else
There is nothing wrong with this, especially if the relationship has been going on for years and it has become a routine. She would rather get away from you and find her own sexual satisfaction than cheat on you and hurt you.
11. She feels pressured
“When's the wedding?” “You would make excellent parents!” Comments like these have made her think about the future, and maybe she realized she doesn't want you in it.
10. She is scared her life will be reduced to loving you forever
Falling in love is probably one of the best feelings in the world, but when the feeling goes away, you wonder, is that all there is? She wants to find that out away from you.
9. She doesn't trust you anymore
If you ever cheated on her, the trust is gone. Maybe she didn't say or do anything when it happened, but now that time has passed, she has realized that she really doesn't have a reason to stay with you.
8. She doesn't know what a future with you would be like
She needs certainties that you can't -or won't- give her.
7. Your relationship may be stable, but she isn't
You might get along just fine, but if she is going through an emotional crisis, this may be the best for her.
6. She is afraid you will turn into your father
She has thought about the future by your side. In this scenario, you become a copy of your father, and she refuses to be a copy of your mother.
5. She is not growing as a person by your side
She has professional and personal goals that she won't be able to reach if she stays with you.
4. She feels you are more committed to this relationship and she doesn't feel the same
Maybe you suggested taking the relationship to the next leve and she wasn't ready for it. She probably doesn't want to be unfair to you by refusing to take this step, but she also doesn't feel ready.
3. She has plans that do not include you
She got a grant, she was offered a job in another country or has a trip planned from before she met you. Either way, her plans do not include you, and she doesn't want a long-distance relationship.
2. You have different lifestyles
You would rather go out and get drunk every weekend, but she has stopped doing that. Perhaps you went vegan, but she still loves meat. These may seem small, trivial things, but over time, they have been causing you to grow apart, and the relationship has become a burden for her.
1. You are what she always wanted, but now she wants something else
You were once everything she wanted, and she wanted you like she never wanted anyone else, and she waited a long time to meet you, but things change: she changed and now she wants something else.
Why is my boyfriend cheating on me? Why is my husband leaving me? How can I be more attractive for men? How can I keep him? There are millions of questions like these online. But "why does a woman leave?" is not a very common question. Why is that? Many people assume that a woman's goal is to have a partner for life, and once she gets a "perfect" partner she is supposed to stay there forever, never looking back. But this is not the case.
It has become a tired cliché to hear men complain and justify their cheating with excuses like "I was confused" or "I am bored", and people agree with them and call for understanding of their actions, but when a woman expresses a desire to do just that, she is frowned upon and labelled "crazy."
Men and women have tons of reasons to stay in or leave a relationship. Some are shallow, and others are deep and painful. However, we are all made of the same human fabric, and these reasons should not be used to put all the blame on women, or make men always the victim. These decisions are never easy.
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