7 Signs That Prove You And Your Partner Are Having Great Sex
31 de enero de 2018Andrea Mejía
How can you tell whether you and your partner are compatible? There are non-verbal signs and actions that show that the two of you are having an excellent time.
You don't rush the foreplay.
You and your partner know foreplay is an essential part of good sex. However, you don’t do it just like a routine step you have to go through to get to the real deal, but you make it part of the whole sexy time. It's a moment for you to enjoy, to make the pleasure last from beginning to end, and to get to know each other even better. Perhaps, you even use that time to explore new ways to spice up things between you two and to try new moves.
You take your time.
Related to the previous point, you know that quickies aren’t really the best way to lead a healthy and enjoyable sex life. I mean, everyone has them sometimes, but they shouldn't be the norm in a relationship because after a while they can become boring and even unpleasant. Sex is something you should look forward to, and like with everything else you enjoy in life, you wouldn't want it to end too soon if you're having a good time, right? That’s why you take things slow and make sure both of you are having a good time. If your partner is rushing it (when you didn't agree to do it quickly), they’re probably not enjoying it, so they want it to end as soon as possible.
It doesn’t feel like a chore.
You’re open about your likes and dislikes.
Let’s be honest. The first times having sex with your partner might be a bit awkward because you don't know what the other person likes. However, moving on from those first uncomfortable times to actually enjoying every moment with them depends on how open you are with your partner about what you like and listening to what they like. You can learn from that feedback to make it a time both of you won’t want to end. Of course, being open doesn’t mean being a jerk when you're telling them how they can improve. Sex implies a certain vulnerability. If you’re going to be open about your likes and dislikes, you have to be respectful and ask for that respect in return.
You're both generous.
You live the moment.
It's not perfect, and that's what makes it great.
Don’t be discouraged if some of these signs aren't true for you and your partner. The longer you know them, the better the sex will get. The important thing is being willing to learn and communicate with your partner, so both of you can have a great time.
Here are other articles you should check out:
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The Most Awkward Yet Important Question You Need To Ask Your Partner
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