Just like other animal species have particular mating seasons and rituals, humans experience sex in different phases. This cycle of sexual intercourse will define whether a relationship will last or fail. These stages are present from the start of the romance and, as they evolve, will grow stronger or fade away.
Every couple will experience this cycle of sex in different ways, depending on their connection, particular situations, as well as external factors. Attraction, romantic love, and attachment are the variables that manage the frequency of sexual encounters. Couples are in a constant flux of available time and space, which affects their sexual desire and instincts. The chemistry of love will fiddle with their internal substances to transform passion into deep affection. Unfortunately most conflicts and issues arise soon after. But if both parties are able to overcome the difficult times, their cycle will return to the beginning and open a new chapter in their relationship.
Exploring
Moment in the relationship: You meet someone you’re sexually attracted to.
Sex Stage: Desperate yet controlable desire. Neither one is sure of what they or their partner will enjoy. Both explore each other’s body to try and find the limits.
Animalistic
Moment in the relationship: Both have come to know each other enough to know what the other likes and what they want. They trust enough to try new things and find wilder desires.
Sex Stage: They found what works for them and their partner in the last stage, so now is the moment to try new ways to receive and give pleasure. Caution is thrown to the wind and both are constantly aroused and excited for a tryst that can happen anytime and anywhere.
Co-existence
Moment in the relationship: The time you’ve shared together has led to taking a big step, whether it’s living together or spending most of your days with each other. It seems like you’re main goal is to spend as much time together as possible.
Sex Stage: After discovering both of your deepest desires in the animalistic stage will lead to try to have more encounters. But the proximity and easy access to sex might have the opposite effect. Don’t be blinded about how much time you’re with each other; hard times are ahead.
Routine
Moment in the relationship: The intensity of your encounters has been damaged by how accessible is sex . There’s nothing new to discover and there’s barely anything you don’t know about one another.
Sex Stage: Desire has gone down. Both of you would rather sleep than have sex. Love can continue to be strong but an existential crisis will cause a rift as both wonder when the excitement went away.
Re-Start
This final stage is also a new beginning. While searching for the stumped desire, you begin to explore the same way you did at the start. On the other hand, the wish to please one another will balance your sexual encounters as both of you will want to inject high doses of pleasure to achieve more intense orgasms, preventing the magic from fading away.
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