In the intimacy of our bed we always find ways to complement each other, between the kisses and caresses our thoughts are in sync. We can’t expect to know more about each other only through sex, no matter how deep or intimate it may be, it is just a part of the relationship. Neither can we expect to have deep, heartfelt conversations in a loud restaurant, nor will love grow deeper at the bars or parties we go to. So, tonight, in the quiet and tranquility of our bedroom, we can be honest. In those precious hours before we close our eyes and rest, we can talk freely until our voices become thin and our breathing slowly lulls us to sleep.
What was your first impression of me?
It feels as if last night was only a dream and the conversation we had is all jumbled up in our heads. Between the exhaustion and excitement, we shared our deepest thoughts and the very next day we feel more in love than ever. The future, fears, triumphs, and insecurities were exposed between the sheets. Our bed is a safe haven where there are no fights and where time ceases to be. It is in that hour before we close our eyes that we can become closer than ever.
There are millions of questions we can ask our partner before going to sleep, some we have already asked, but there are others that will shine a light on the deepest thoughts of the person lying next to you, and maybe their answers will bring you closer together.
1. What do my lips taste like?
2. Before we met, what picture did you have in your mind of who you’d be the love of your life?
3. What’s the first thought that crossed through your head in our first date?
4. For you, what’s a real friendship?
5. What has been our most memorable kiss so far?
5. What do you really think about my friends and family?
6. What was your first impression of me?
7. What are the biggest you have experienced within you?
8. What kind of future do you picture for us?
9. Who are the people you care about the most in this world?
10. What would happen if we had to live in different countries?
11. Who makes you jealous and why do you think is the reason?
12. Do you think we’ll always be together?
13. What’s the most dangerous thing or illegal thing you’ve ever done?
14.Where would you travel without me?
15. What else would you have liked to do as a job?
16. How was your first kiss?
17. What are the habits or quirks that tick you off and which habits do you think make me angry?
18. What haven’t we done yet and we should do as soon as possible?
19. Who is your weirdest friend?
20. What do you prefer, romance or sex?
21. Where do you see us in five years?
22. How would you describe your perfect day?
23. If tonight was our las night together, what would you say to me?
Voicing our thoughts help strengthen any relationship. It is between the cozy sheets and under the shelter of the night that we can treasure the person lying next to us. If we understand and embrace our imperfections and theirs, then we can go continue moving further to a better place. These 23 questions will bring you closer together and you will cherish those moments even more.
